Losing a child is tough. Many women have gone through losing babies through miscarriage, still birth, and neonatal deaths. You may have gotten the courage to conceive and become pregnant again, and welcome a rainbow baby, only to find that you experience mixed feelings of missing a child while at the same time feeling joy for the one you can hold. I know this experience all too well, and I’m here to tell you that you can equally love both the baby that is not here with you and the one that is here that you can love on. Here are a few ways I found peace in parenting after loss.